Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions about children in New Jersey, answered by Brick Law, LLC.
What is parenting time in New Jersey?
Parenting time is the schedule setting when a child is with each parent, covering weekdays, weekends, holidays, school breaks and vacations. New Jersey courts expect a detailed written schedule rather than “reasonable and liberal” language, because vague terms are the most common source of later disputes.
Can a parent be denied parenting time?
Rarely, and only where the child’s physical or emotional safety requires it. New Jersey policy strongly favours a child’s continuing relationship with both parents. Where genuine risk exists, courts usually order supervised parenting time or therapeutic reunification rather than denying contact altogether.
Can parenting time be withheld if child support is not paid?
No. Parenting time and child support are separate obligations in New Jersey. Withholding a child because support is unpaid is itself a violation of the court order and can affect custody. The correct remedy is an enforcement application, never self-help.
How are holidays and vacations divided?
Most New Jersey parenting plans alternate major holidays by year, fix each parent’s religious or cultural holidays, split school breaks, and give each parent one or two uninterrupted vacation weeks with advance written notice. Naming specific dates and exchange times prevents most later conflict.
What is a parenting coordinator?
A neutral professional appointed to help high-conflict parents implement an existing parenting plan and resolve day-to-day disputes without returning to court. A coordinator does not change custody, but recommendations can be brought to the court where the parents cannot reach agreement.
Do grandparents have visitation rights in New Jersey?
Grandparents may apply, but the burden is high. Under N.J.S.A. 9:2-7.1 and Moriarty v. Bradt, a grandparent must prove that denying visitation would cause the child specific, identifiable harm — not merely that contact would be beneficial or that the family would prefer it.
Have a question that is not answered here? Contact Brick Law, LLC or call (201) 254-0881 to speak with a Bergen County family law attorney.
This information is general and about New Jersey law. It is not legal advice and does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case turns on its own facts.